Phillips Exeter Academy

2023 Graduation Remarks

Members of the Class of 2023: I am pleased to deliver this farewell address.

Soon you will be graduates of Phillips Exeter Academy. With diplomas in hand, you will be fellow Exeter alumni. In that sense, we will be peers, members of the same extended Exeter community that spans generations. 

I hope you will leave Exeter as I did many years ago – with a deep sense of gratitude for your time here, and a strong sense of belonging. 

Our mission as a school, as you know so well, is to unite goodness and knowledge and inspire youth from every quarter to lead purposeful lives.

Your mission as students has been to learn and grow, make lifelong friends, pursue your passions, and prepare yourselves to lead purposeful lives.

You have done all that. You have been challenged during your time here, and you have succeeded. In all your endeavors – academic, artistic, athletic, and more – you have worked hard, aspired to excellence, and achieved excellence. Whether you have been here one year or four, or in between, you have grown in ways that you likely could not have imagined when you first arrived.

I have said many times that Exeter has never stayed strong by staying the same. Even in the last four years, like you, our school has grown and changed in important ways. We have become stronger in how we celebrate the rich diversity of our school community, and how we strive to create a strong sense of belonging for all members of our community. You have played important roles, often leadership roles, in this critically important work, and I thank you.

When I think back on my days as a student, my strongest memories are not about individual or group accomplishments. Of course, I do remember a few triumphs pretty vividly, and I remember a few disappointments. Yet, the sense of what it meant to be part of this community, with its long history and high ideals, and the lifelong friendships that came along with it, are what have had the greatest meaning and most enduring impact for me over the years. And it was my experience that my teachers really cared about me, expected a lot of me, and were uncompromising in their expectations, that gave me self-confidence and propelled me forward. I hope the same has been true for all of you, is true for you today, and will be what you hold most dear in the years ahead.

We must remember and recognize that your time here has not been easy. The pandemic posed significant challenges for our school and for all of you, from spring of Prep year right through last year. But nothing can prepare a school for the tragic loss that we experienced as a community in January.

You have faced adversity and loss with compassion, empathy and grace, determined to find a way forward together. Always together as a community. Drawing strength from one another. Caring for each other. 

Throughout your time here, but especially this year, I have admired how you have supported each other, cared for each other, and shown up for one another. I have seen this every day, in every corner of the campus, and in every facet of Academy life, and I have found it inspiring. 

I think that is why I believe I will always remember the class of 2023 not only for your accomplishments, which are considerable and many, but more importantly, for your indomitable spirit, your resilience, for how you have celebrated each other, and for the joy that you have brought to our school and all that you have done here.

Exeter is a collection of stories – stories which together comprise the rich history of our school. You now have your own stories – stories that are as much a part of the Academy’s history as the stories of any other class. It has been a great pleasure for me, for your teachers, and for all the adults on campus, to witness your stories unfolding, individually and as a class, and to observe firsthand your growth and your many contributions to the life and spirit of the school. 

There is a country music song which some of you might know called Don’t Get Above Your Raising. The song is about not forgetting where you came from. Don’t forget your roots. Don’t forget those who brought you into this world and have supported you all along. 

I trace my roots to a small mill town in Rhode Island where hockey was king and going to college not expected. My father was one of the rare exceptions; his athletic skills, particularly in hockey, combined with good grades, earned him an opportunity to attend Brown University, thirty minutes from the small mill town of Harrisville, Rhode Island, where he grew up. Years later, when I was a student here, Phillips Exeter Academy might have seemed worlds apart from my relatives who still lived in Harrisville, but in my mind, they stood for the same things: integrity, hard work and respect. 

My grandmother Eva Augusta Rawson, who went back to work in the mill when her husband died at a relatively young age, expected the same of me as my instructors did here. It was during my visits to Harrisville with my grandmother and my aunts and uncles, none of whom went to college, that my values were shaped. That is where I learned to respect the dignity of all work and the equal worth of every human life – values that were reinforced here at Exeter.

Phillips Exeter Academy is not above wherever you came from. Yet, an Exeter education is an extraordinary gift, and being here a great privilege. With that privilege comes great opportunity, and with opportunity comes responsibility. 

Our core value of non sibi expresses our belief that wisdom gained here should be used for the good of others as well as for oneself. We boldly proclaim, “Exeter seeks to graduate young people whose ambitions and actions are inspired by their interest in others and the world around them.” And we state further that “Exonians are motivated by this philosophy to face the challenges of their day.” 

The challenges of your day – whether viewed locally, regionally or globally — are many and formidable, and you do not need me to list them for you.

Imbued with knowledge and goodness, you are ready to take your place in the world and confront our greatest challenges head on. With the abilities you brought with you and the skills you have developed here, and with all that you have learned here, you are ready for your next steps. 

Through Harkness, you have had the opportunity to learn with others whose experiences, backgrounds and perspectives differ from your own. You have grown in confidence as you have come to realize your capacity to learn and grow. And you have come to appreciate that human connection is at the foundation of all that we do and all that we can hope to accomplish in this world. You take these Harkness skills and experiences with you as you go forward in life, and are uniquely prepared to join and lead teams that will help develop solutions to our most intractable problems. 

You have attended many assemblies in which Exeter alumni have shared their stories about how they have taken what they learned here and have gone on to improve lives and change the world in some meaningful way. It is your turn now. You now will become the change makers. You are ready to follow the examples of Exonians who have come before, and write your own non sibi stories. You are ready, and you have what it takes. It will be exciting to see what paths you choose, and how you will lead your own purposeful lives.

I would like to close with a few more words about gratitude and belonging.

First, I would like to express my own gratitude for your time here, for all that you have contributed to the life of our school, and for the combination of purpose and joy that you have brought to our school and all you that have done here. I will miss you. I will miss this class. 

Second, regarding your own gratitude, in addition to being grateful to your families, teachers and all other adults who have supported you during your time here, I hope you also feel gratitude to prior generations of Exonians who have helped make Exeter what it is today, and who have thereby helped make your Exeter experiences possible. We should be grateful to those who came before, and accept our place and responsibility as part of the history of this great school. 

And lastly, with respect to belonging, please understand that your belonging at Exeter does not end today. You will always belong here. Your teachers, coaches and other mentors will continue to care for you, and will look forward to your return visits. In the years ahead, it will be deeply meaningful to them to see the impact they have had on your lives, and through your lives, on the world. After all, this is how they have chosen to be change makers. 

At the height of the pandemic, I told you, “Exeter lives within us and forms around us, no matter the distance between us.” Wherever your lives may take you, you will always be Exonians, and you will always belong to each other. 

Class of 2023: I wish you success and fulfillment in the years ahead. Please come back often to share your stories.

Congratulations!

Principal Rawson’s 2022 Opening Assembly Address

Good morning, Exeter.

I welcome you again to this Opening Assembly, which marks the beginning of the 242nd year in the history of our school.

It is indeed wonderful to see everyone gathered together, and to feel the energy and excitement in the room.  For some, this represents a return to the school you already know well and love, and to friendships that already have been formed and mean the world to you.  For others, it represents a new beginning.  I am happy and excited to see all of you here this morning.

I would like to thank Dean Page for welcoming and introducing our new faculty to our school community.  We are so excited that our new faculty are here and are now a part of the Exeter community.

Thank you, Dean Weatherspoon, for welcoming and recognizing our emeriti faculty.  We are deeply grateful for our emeriti faculty’s presence this morning and for their enduring commitment to our school.

I would like to extend a special, warm welcome to all our new students.  You are 341 in number, and come from 34 states and 20 countries.  You bring a wonderful diversity of backgrounds, experiences, talents and interests.  Every one of you was admitted without regard to your family’s ability to pay tuition or other costs of attending Exeter.

Watch the Opening Assembly remarks

Last November we announced a “need-blind” admissions policy, meaning that Exeter’s admissions decisions are made without regard to any family’s ability to pay, and the Academy is committed to meeting the full demonstrated financial need of every student.  The generosity of alumni, parents and friends of the Academy, recently and over many generations, has made these commitments possible, and we are indeed very grateful.

In addition to welcoming our new students, I would like to assure you that I have every confidence in your success at Exeter.  I say that from the perspective of having once occupied your seat, as a new Lower, many years ago.  I came from a modest background and was a financial aid recipient.  When I attended opening assembly for the first time, I certainly was happy to be here, and of course I felt the excitement of the day, but I also was a little nervous, and perhaps even a bit overwhelmed or intimidated by everything and everyone around me.  That was many years ago.  With our robust orientation programs today, hopefully you have already left those uncertain feelings behind, but just in case, let me tell you what I tell all our new students every year.

You can do the work.

You will make lifelong friends.

Absolutely, you belong here. 

It has been my custom during my tenure as principal to unveil at Opening Assembly each year a new school T-shirt, and I will do that now. This is an additional way to welcome our new students, and to reinforce for all students, new and returning, a sense of pride and belonging. You are all Exonians. You will be able to collect your T-shirts outside as you leave the gym, and keep an eye out for Exeter bars outside McConnnell Hall as you head to class.

Seniors, members of the Class of 2023, I want to add that it is wonderful to see you in the front section!  This will be an important and memorable year for you.  We have 31 new seniors this year.  Whether this is your fourth year at Exeter or first, or in between, your leadership across all aspects of school life will be important to the success of our school this year.  

Uppers, members of the Class of 2024, you have passed the halfway point.  It will be exciting to see you continue to learn and grow this year, and to watch as you emerge into leadership positions in your own right.  Please welcome 25 new students to your class.   

Lowers, Class of 2025, we have 62 new Lowers this year.  This is a year for you to explore new passions and develop new strengths, perhaps strengths that prior to coming to Exeter you never imagined you could have.  

And finally, preps, Class of 2026, 222 strong and all new to Exeter.  It might be hard for you to imagine, but in time you will be seniors, and a new class of preps will be looking up to you.  For now, I encourage you to reach out to older students for advice; they can tell you what they wish they had known when they arrived as new students.

It also is our custom at Exeter for the principal at Opening Assembly to talk about the Academy’s Deed of Gift and reflect on the mission of our school.  The Deed of Gift was signed by co-founders John and Elizabeth Phillips in 1781, five years after the signing of the Declaration of Independence, and seven years before the State of New Hampshire became the ninth state to ratifify the U.S. Constitution.  Our Deed of Gift is a remarkable document.

It states that Exeter “shall ever be equally open to youth of requisite qualifications from every quarter.”  

And it states, “Above all, it is expected that the attention of instructors to the disposition of the minds and morals of the youth under their charge will exceed every other care; well considering that though goodness without knowledge is weak and feeble, yet knowledge without goodness is dangerous, and that both united form the noblest character, and lay the surest foundation of usefulness to humankind.” 

From these passages, we derive our school mission.  Our mission is to unite goodness and knowledge and inspire youth from every quarter to lead purposeful lives.

We proudly proclaim “academic excellence” as a core value and signature strength of our school.  Indeed, that is one of the reasons you are here — to excel academically. Our core value states, “In every discipline, and at every level within our curriculum, we seek to inspire students to develop critical thinking skills and seek complex truths. Intellectual exploration through rigorous inquiry and thoughtful discourse at the Harkness table nurtures inquisitiveness, creativity, insight, empathy, independent thought and mastery in our students.”

We aim high at Exeter.  We will help you excel in your academic pursuits, and in all your other endeavors.  Our objective is to teach you how to think, not what to think, and the focus, inside and outside the classroom, will always be on knowledge and goodness.  

As The Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. said, while an undergraduate at Morehouse College, “We must remember that intelligence is not enough. Intelligence plus character—that is the goal of true education.”

At Exeter, we are committed to building a diverse, equitable and inclusive community, where all members of the community have a strong sense of belonging and equal opportunity to thrive.  In this regard, our commitment to youth from every quarter is integral to how we teach and learn, and inseparable from our mission to unite goodness and knowledge and prepare our students – all of you – to lead purposeful lives.  

The Academy’s Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Vision Statement explicitly states:

“Our Harkness pedagogy is grounded in the belief that we are all better equipped to learn and to lead when our thoughts are tested by others, particularly by those whose thoughts or identities are different from our own. Only when we skillfully engage our differences …  will we find a path to that greater understanding of the world and how we can be of service to it.”

As an educational institution, we value free expression.  We recognize that free expression is essential to robust and free intellectual inquiry.  We understand that the promise of a diverse community is not realized without such free expression, just as the benefit of free expression is not fully realized without a commitment to diversity.  

In our national discourse today, too often we see division, rancor and meanness, a predisposition to attack opponents personally, and a strategy to prevail through some combination of sound bites, half-truths, untruths, and deceptions, or sidestepping the issues entirely. 

At Exeter, the goal is not to win but to learn, and the strategy for learning must be precisely as stated in our DEI Vision Statement:  

“We must harness perspectives from every quarter to encourage adults and students to think critically, realize and challenge their assumptions, and collaborate to forge a greater understanding of the world. This means developing an inclination toward, and facility with, diversity of thought, perspective and experience. This also means cultivating the empathy, understanding, and respect necessary to open one’s mind to those thoughts, perspectives and experiences that differ from one’s own.”

Experienced Harkness students know that listening with empathy – really being curious about why another person might feel or think differently than you do — is a critical skill, upon which your learning and personal growth will greatly depend.

Learning in this way from each other is exciting, but we recognize that at times it also can be uncomfortable.  It can be uncomfortable to have your ideas and assumptions challenged by others.  We must be comfortable with being uncomfortable, and we must understand that in a thriving educational community we should expect a diversity of viewpoints on almost every subject worth exploring.    

We also want you to find the work challenging and at times even difficult, so you will come to understand your own capacity to meet the challenges that we offer.  It is through meeting the challenges that you face that you will come to realize your own possibilities to learn and grow.

This is how we aspire to teach, and how you will learn.  In particular, this is how you will learn from one another.  It is how together we can seek complex truths.  It is the essence of a Harkness education.  It is how you prepare yourselves to be the kinds of leaders and citizens that our world needs today. 

I would like to draw your attention to a third passage in the Deed of Gift.  In the very first paragraph, our Founders wrote, “the time of youth is the important period, on the improvement or neglect of which depend the most weighty consequences, to individuals themselves and the community.” In essence, our Founders were saying that your time here matters.  It matters not only to your own development as human beings, but also to those with whom you will engage throughout the course of your lives.  Our founders were expressing a belief that imbued with knowledge and goodness, each and every one of you will have the capacity to make a positive difference in the world and in the communities in which you will live.  

We give expression to this idea on our school seal, with the words “non sibi,” which in Latin means not for oneself.  Non sibi also is a core value of our school, and signifies our belief that wisdom gained here should be used for others as well as for oneself.  We state plainly that we “seek to graduate students who are motivated to face the challenges of their day, and whose ambitions and actions are inspired by their interest in others and the world around them.”  Non sibi is the very spirit and ethos of our school.

One aspect of our commitment to non sibi is our long history at Exeter of environmental stewardship.  Gifford Pinchot, Exeter Class of 1885 and generally regarded as the founder of the conservation movement in the United States, championed conservation of our natural resources when he returned to the Academy to speak in assembly in 1919. The first outing club was formed not long thereafter. Our first ecology club was formed, and the first ecology course taught, more than 50 years ago. 

In April 1970, quite a number of students boarded buses and went to Washington, D.C., to attend the first Earth Day. Student engagement on environmental issues has been strong ever since, and is strong now, and with good reason, as we hear and read about the existential threat of climate change on a daily basis.  

The Academy is committed to doing its part.  In recent years, we have reduced scope 1 and scope 2 carbon emissions by more than 60 percent. We have achieved our emissions reductions through a variety of means, including introducing geothermal heating and cooling in several buildings (including the new dorm), and the installation of solar panels on the roof of the field house. We also have steadily grown our curricular offerings in the areas of sustainability and climate science.  We will continue to build on these accomplishments this year and in the years to come, and student engagement will be important, as we continue to explore ways to incorporate sustainability into all aspects of our programs, operations and daily lives at the Academy.   

I will close this morning by saying that I am excited about this new academic year.  It has been a great pleasure to walk about the campus these past few days and feel the excitement, energy and joy that all of you bring to a new school year.  When I was a student, I spent my summers waiting to come back.  I sense a similar feeling among all of you.  

It will be exciting this year to watch you excel across all academic disciplines and thrive in the arts — visual, music, drama and dance.  You will compete at a high level in athletics, perhaps win a championship or two, and forge lifelong bonds with your teammates.  You will carry on a tradition of numerous strong student publications, excel in other clubs and activities, and provide leadership for affinity groups.  You will perform in assembly, give meditations, and be leaders of student religious groups.  In all these and many other ways, you will have fun, learn and grow, and, importantly, support each other.

It was very moving at graduation three months ago to hear our graduating seniors express their deep gratitude for their time at Exeter.  We all should start this new academic year with similar feelings of deep appreciation and gratitude for the opportunities and privileges that we all enjoy by being a part of the Exeter community. 

I will be excited to see what special things you will accomplish this year, how you will contribute to the life of the school, and how you will lay the surest foundation for your own purposeful lives.

And now, for the benefit of the new students, by tradition, we end an assembly by saying “senior class” and give the seniors an opportunity to leave first. Senior class.

2024 Graduation Remarks

Two students embrace in a hug on the graduation stage

Members of the Class of 2024: By tradition, it is now my privilege and honor, as principal, to deliver a farewell address.

I would like to begin where commencement addresses often end, by saying congratulations.

You came to Exeter to learn and grow, have fun, make lifelong friends, pursue your passions, and lay the surest foundation for the rest of your lives — the surest foundation for leading purposeful lives.

You have done all that, and you have done it well. In all your endeavors – academic, artistic, athletic, and more – you have worked hard, aspired to excellence, and achieved excellence.

Your success here is not measured by championships, prizes or awards, but you have indeed won many championships and prestigious competitions, demonstrating that the teaching and learning that occurs here, across all disciplines, is at the highest levels.

You have found joy in your activities and accomplishments and grown in ways that you likely could not have imagined when you first arrived. That is true whether you have been here one year or four, or in between. However long you have been here, you have made the most of the opportunities presented to you and you have succeeded.

Along the way, you have formed deep friendships that will last your lifetimes. I am confident that the friendships that you have formed here will mean as much to you over time as any individual or group accomplishments.

I am proud of all that you have accomplished, but even more proud of how you have contributed to the life of the school, and how you have supported each other. I don’t quite know how you came to be seniors so quickly, but here you are, ready to graduate, and more than ready for the next phase of your education and the challenges that lie ahead.

Your time here has not always been easy. Many of you arrived in September 2020 amidst a global pandemic. Participating in Harkness classes remotely from your dormitory rooms, library carrels or from home was difficult. Building community while coping with COVID restrictions was hard.

We experienced a terrible loss when Matthew Clemson died last year. You responded with compassion, empathy and grace, supporting each other and caring for one another. You honored Matthew’s life and supported his family.

Notwithstanding the cliché, we do not live in an Exeter bubble. We follow the news, hear from loved ones near and far, and care about events in the United States and around the world. This year the events in the Middle East, Sudan, Ukraine and other areas have weighed heavily on many in our community as we are confronted daily by news of war, violence, disease, hunger, poverty, and injustice. We care about the future of our planet and want to know what we can do to make the world a safer, healthier and better place for all.

You have to decide how you want to respond to these and other challenges that you see in the world every day.

You have to decide how you want to make the world, the communities in which you live, and the places where you work, better than you found them — not just for some, but for all.

Our core value of non sibi expresses our belief that wisdom gained here should be used for the good of others as well as for oneself. We seek to graduate young people “whose ambitions and actions are inspired by their interest in others and the world around them.” We boldly proclaim, “Exonians are motivated by this philosophy to face the challenges of their day.”

You have attended many assemblies in which alumni have shared their stories about how they have confronted the challenges of their day. It is your turn now to begin writing your own non sibi stories.

It is not the goal or responsibility of your generation to develop final answers to the challenges that you see around you. Your goal is to develop the best answers that you can for your generation, with the hope and understanding that future generations will build upon and improve those answers.

Author and journalist Monica Guzman told you in assembly in September that “everyone in this room is wrong about something, you just don’t know what it is.”

Similarly, American historian and philosopher Will Durant once said, “Education is a progressive discovery of [one’s] own ignorance.”

With those thoughts in mind, I urge you to be respectful of strongly-held values and skeptical of strongly-held opinions. Are they grounded in truth? Do they respect the dignity and equal worth of every human life? Are they grounded in an understanding of our common humanity, and do they account for all lives equally?

At Exeter, we seek to inspire students to pursue complex truths. We do this through cultivation of critical thinking, rigorous inquiry and thoughtful discourse. We don’t seek simple narratives when complex truths are required to understand the world and how we can be of service to it. Let your thirst for knowledge and goodness and your pursuit of complex truths be what drives your education not just in college, but throughout your lives.

Toward that end, as you go forward in life, continue to seek opportunities, as you have had here, to learn with and from others whose ideas, experiences and perspectives differ from your own. At Exeter, we understand that “we are all better equipped to learn and to lead when our thoughts are tested by others, particularly by those whose ideas, perspectives, experiences or identities differ from our own.” This requires cultivating the empathy, understanding, and respect necessary to truly open our minds to thoughts, perspective and experiences that differ from our own.

It is all too easy in this world, and it may be all too easy in college, to surround yourself with persons who think just like you. That might be a good way to find agreement, but it is not a good way to learn, and in fact can be quite limiting to your education, and undermine the education process.

By contrast, learning with and from others whose ideas and perspectives differ from your own might seem hard at times, but it is the most interesting way to learn, the most fun way to learn, and the most effective and rewarding way to learn. In short, it is the best way to learn, and likely the only way to solve some of our world’s most intractable problems.

Remember, wherever you find yourselves next year, people will expect you to be intelligent and capable; they will also be watching to see if you are kind and have humility.

Class of 2024, I am coming to the end of my remarks. Soon, with diplomas in hand, you will be fellow Exeter alumni. In that sense, you and I will be peers, members of the same extended Exeter community that spans generations.

I hope you will leave Exeter as I did many years ago – with joy and satisfaction in your accomplishments, a deep sense of gratitude for your time here, and, importantly, with a strong sense of belonging.

I am sure you have strong feelings of gratitude for your families, teachers and all the other adults who have supported you during your time here. I hope you also feel gratitude to prior generations of Exonians who have helped make your Exeter experiences possible. We should be grateful to those who came before us and accept our place and responsibility as part of the history of this great school.

During your prep year, when you went home for Thanksgiving and did not return until mid-February, I told you, “Exeter lives within us and forms around us, no matter the distance between us.” That remains true today. You will always be Exonians and you will always belong here.

I certainly am going to miss the Class of 2024. I will always remember the joy that you brought to our school and all your activities. I will eagerly wait to see what lies ahead for you. I have every confidence in your abilities and inclination to make a positive difference in the world. In the years to come, I hope you will come back often to tell your stories.

Members of the Class of 2024, I wish you success and fulfillment in all your endeavors.

I will close where I started, by saying again, congratulations! Thank you.

To all who are assembled here today, and to all who are watching from afar, with excitement, admiration and joy, I present to you our newest alumni, the Class of 2024!

Congratulations!

Need-blind admissions

Dear Exeter community,

We are excited to share the news that from this day forward all admissions decisions at Exeter will be made without regard for any family’s ability to pay tuition or other associated costs of attending the Academy. Beginning with students who will enter the Academy in the coming academic year, our admissions process will be “need-blind.” Cost will no longer be a barrier to any qualified students who dream of attending Phillips Exeter Academy. 

When Exeter was founded 240 years ago, John and Elizabeth Phillips made a commitment that continues to serve as one of our core values:

Expanding access to an Exeter education is central to our mission. The commitment expressed in our Deed of Gift ensures that all our students, regardless of economic circumstances, are not only able to attend but also know they belong at Exeter. Financial aid makes it possible for students from “every quarter” to join the Academy community and learn, lead and thrive here.

Today, we renew our commitment to youth from every quarter. Over the last two years, alumni, parents and friends have committed over $90 million in new endowment for financial aid. With this new support, building on support for financial aid provided over many generations, the Academy Trustees have voted unanimously to make this commitment to “need-blind” admissions.

The Trustees have made this commitment with the understanding that additional support will be needed to sustain our commitment into the future. Fundraising for financial aid will continue to be an important priority for our school, and will remain so always. Today almost half our students receive financial aid yet we must expand our reach if we are to ensure that economic circumstances will not be a barrier to any deserving students who wish to receive an Exeter education.  

As we approach the 250th anniversary of the founding of our school, we take inspiration from the ambition of our founders. It is humbling to consider the generations of Exonians who have come forward over the years to support the school, often inspired by the gratitude they felt for the assistance they received themselves. It is equally humbling to contemplate the generosity that will support our school and our commitment to youth from every quarter in years to come.

We are deeply grateful for the many ways alumni, parents and friends support our school. Whether it is through your philanthropy, your volunteer service, or both, we thank you for your generosity, and for your goodness.  

Best regards,  

William K. Rawson ’71, Principal

Morgan C. W. Sze ’83, President of the Trustees

Opening Assembly 2023

Good morning, Exeter.

When preparing for today, my thoughts naturally drifted back in time to the Opening Assembly that I attended as a new Lower many years ago.  This room was very different then.  The stage was smaller, and there was no balcony.  We also had 200 fewer students.  We sat in wooden pews and were assigned to our seats alphabetically, with Seniors up front, then Uppers, then Lowers, and Preps in the back.  With a last name beginning with R, I was pretty far back.  I admit to feeling a little nervous that day, but I also was excited.  There was no doubt in my mind that Exeter was where I wanted to be.   

Of much greater significance than the physical changes to this room over the years are the changes in the composition of our school.  Since the decision to become a coeducational school in the fall of 1970, my senior year, Exeter has been a leader among secondary schools in steadily becoming a more diverse and inclusive community.  We seek students of promising academic ability and strong character from a wide range of backgrounds, experiences, and identities – socioeconomic, ethnic, religious, racial, gender, geographical and cultural – and we admit students without regard to their family’s ability to pay tuition.  I have described the rich diversity of students that results as one of the defining strengths of our school.   

You represent that rich diversity at Exeter today.  Wherever you have come from, and whatever your prior experiences might have been, you have demonstrated abilities and qualities that will enable you to contribute and thrive here.  You have earned your places at Phillips Exeter Academy.
New students, I will tell you now what I tell new students at Opening Assembly every year: rest assured, you can do the work; you will make lifelong friends; and, most importantly, absolutely, you belong here.  We welcome you.  We are delighted that you are here.  
Our Deed of Gift, signed by John and Elizabeth Phillips in 1781, states that Exeter “shall ever be equally open to youth of requisite qualifications from every quarter.”  

The Deed of Gift states further:

From this powerful language, we derive our mission statement: unite goodness and knowledge and inspire youth from every quarter to lead purposeful lives.

Our school seal, adopted in 1784, contains the Latin words non sibi, meaning “not for oneself.” Depicted in a rising sun over a sea of knowledge, these words express our conviction that wisdom gained here should be used for the good of others as well as for oneself.  We boldly proclaim that we “seek to graduate young people whose ambitions and actions are inspired by their interest in others and the world around them.”

We return to these foundational statements each year at Opening Assembly because they explain why Exeter exists, and why we are all here today.   

Phillips Exeter exists not to confer extraordinary privilege on a chosen few, but to lay the surest foundation for your purposeful lives.  The Deed of Gift is a statement of belief – specifically a belief in all of you – that endowed with knowledge and goodness, each and every one of you will be empowered to make a positive difference in the world in whatever ways you might choose.

You will find at Exeter an extraordinary range of opportunities to develop intellectually, artistically, and athletically.  You will be able to choose among a wide range of courses, and even design some of your own courses of study.  You also will have opportunities to pursue your passions through a wide variety of co-curricular programs and test yourselves in competitions against other schools.  You will have to make some choices – you can’t do it all, and adequate sleep is very important to your health and success. But in addition to building on strengths and interests that you have brought with you, I hope you will explore new interests and perhaps build new strengths, and maybe surprise yourself along the way.   

You also will find a wide range of opportunities to contribute to the life of the school, help us build a strong sense of community, support your fellow students, and engage in community service in the surrounding Town of Exeter.  Again, you will have to make choices, but the opportunities are there for you, and your engagement will be an important part of your life at Exeter.  This is non sibi in action at Exeter.

Some returning students know that I enjoy watching English Premier League Soccer.  When one team is gaining momentum and pressing the attack, the British commentators often will say the team on offense is “starting to ask questions” of the other team.  In a sense, we will be asking questions of you during your time here.  What do you want to study?  How do you want to contribute to the life of our school?  What kind of presence do you want to have in your dorms, classrooms, teams, clubs, and other student activities?  What kind of student leaders do you want to be?  What kind of person do you want to be?  These are questions that in fact you will ask yourselves each year.  Your answers will shape your learning and growth and determine the impact that you will have on our school during your time here.

The world is asking questions of us all as well.  Even as our society has become more open and inclusive than it was when I was a student, and even as advances in technology have led to improvements in most aspects of our lives, we are confronted with disturbing headlines every day reflecting immense challenges here in the United States and around the world.  How will you respond?  One thing is clear: we will need the best minds across all disciplines to confront the challenges that we face and make the most of the opportunities before us.  We will need artists as well as scientists, poets as well as mathematicians, ethicists as well as economists.  Most importantly, across all disciplines and all walks of life, we will need citizens and leaders who are motivated by the spirit of non sibi, and who are committed to teaching and living the principles of a just and sustainable society – environmentally, economically, and socially.   

Toward that end, through Harkness and our rigorous academic programs, we will help you develop tools to better understand the world around you.  We will help you develop critical thinking skills and seek complex truths.  Our goal is to teach you how to analyze and think, not what to think.  You will master material in individual subjects at high levels, and in the process develop the skills of a lifelong learner.   

I hope you will find your academic work exciting, and also at times difficult – after all, you have come here to be challenged.  In meeting the challenges that you will face, you will begin to understand more fully your capacity to learn and grow.   

Much of the joy and excitement that you will experience at Exeter, inside and outside the classroom, will come from learning with and alongside your fellow classmates.  

To realize fully the opportunities through Harkness to learn with and from each other, we must commit fully to diversity of thought and free expression.  Robust debate and free intellectual inquiry are fundamental to our educational method and mission, just as freedom of expression is a pillar of a healthy democracy.

Our school Vision Statement for Diversity, Equity and Inclusion speaks to this point in compelling fashion. It says:

Learning this way together is exciting, interesting, and fun.  Through the collision of ideas and perspectives, reflecting differences in backgrounds and experiences, we learn to probe issues more critically, and come to understand our own ideas and perspectives more deeply.  Empathy is critical and not to be taken for granted – we must work at it.  And as I have said in prior Assemblies, we must learn to be comfortable being uncomfortable, and must understandthat we should expect a diversity of viewpoints on almost every subject worth exploring.  Our willingness to learn in this way, and engage across differences, will propel our growth as individuals and as a community.  

I am very excited about the year ahead.  I can’t wait to see all that you will do and accomplish.  I can’t wait to see your plays and performances, see you compete hard on E/A weekends, witness your accomplishments in various academic endeavors and competitions, and see you contribute to the life of the school in so many other ways.  I will be there along the way, with your teachers, advisors, and other mentors, applauding from the audience, cheering from the sidelines, and supporting you in other ways as best I can.   

In turn, I hope you will never lose sight of how fortunate we all are to be a part of this very special school community.  I hope you will always be grateful to your teachers and all the adults here and at home who support you during your time at Exeter.  I also hope you will feel gratitude to prior generations of Exonians who have helped make your Exeter experiences possible.  One way we demonstrate our gratitude is by treating those around us, students and adults alike, with humility, kindness and respect as we go about our daily responsibilities.  How we say hello on the paths, and how we say thank you when going through the line in the dining hall, matters – to ourselves and everyone around us.

It has been my custom during my tenure as principal to unveil at Opening Assembly a new school t-shirt for the year.  We do this as a fun additional way to welcome our new students, but also to emphasize to all our students, new and returning, that you are all Exonians, and you all belong here.  Immediately following this assembly, please collect your shirt in the Academic Quad.  Please take a shirt with your class year on the front.  You will see that the shaded part on the back in fact is small type displaying the very words that I have been talking about this morning: non sibi, knowledge and goodness, youth from every quarter, and purposeful lives.

And now, by tradition, we end this assembly by dismissing the Seniors first.

Senior class.

The power of ‘youth from every quarter’

Our Deed of Gift, signed by John and Elizabeth Phillips in 1781, states that Exeter “shall ever be equally open to youth of requisite qualifications from every quarter.” 

Since the decision to become a coeducational school in the fall of 1970, my senior year, Exeter has been a leader among secondary schools in building a more diverse and inclusive community. We seek students of promising academic ability and strong character from a wide range of backgrounds, experiences and identities, and we admit students without regard to their family’s ability to pay tuition. The rich diversity of students that results creates a powerful learning environment and is one of the defining strengths of our school.

This year we have 1,078 students from 39 countries and 45 states and territories. Almost half are recipients of financial aid. They bring an impressive diversity of talents and interests. Students drive their learning at Exeter, inside and outside the classroom, and we look forward to seeing all that they will accomplish this year in academics, the arts, athletics, extracurricular activities, student leadership roles, community service, and in so many other ways. It will be exciting to see them grow in ways they never could have imagined before coming here. It has been nothing short of wonderful the first few days of the fall term to see how excited all our students, new and returning alike, are to be here, and how quickly new friendships form at the beginning of each year.

At Opening Assembly, I reminded our students that to realize fully the promise of our diverse community of learners, and to make the most of the opportunities through Harkness to learn with and from each other, we must be fully committed to diversity of thought and free expression. Robust debate and free intellectual inquiry are fundamental to our educational method and mission, just as freedom of expression is a pillar of a healthy democracy. I told our students we must learn to be comfortable being uncomfortable, and understand that we should expect a diversity of viewpoints on almost every subject worth exploring. Learning in this way propels our growth as individuals and as a community. It is how we prepare our students to be the citizens and leaders that our world needs.  

I also spoke to our students about the gratitude we all should feel for the privileges we enjoy as members of this very special school community. Our gratitude extends to prior generations of Exonians who have helped make Exeter what it is today, and to all adults here and at home who will support our students and our school this year. We show our gratitude by how we make the most of the opportunities that are given to us, by how we strive for excellence in all that we do, and by how we incorporate the spirit of non sibi in our daily lives.

So, as we begin the 243rd year in the history of our school, I express gratitude to all alumni, families and friends of the Academy for your belief in the mission of our school and for your steadfast support. 

This story was originally published in the Fall 2023 issue of The Exeter Bulletin.

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